Deciding to add another member to your family is not one that should be taken lightly but it comes with great rewards. For some, it can help to make your family feel complete and for others, the decision is based on wanting to help children feel loved and wanted.

The adoption process can be long and a bit daunting, so being prepared can help you navigate the process with confidence. Here are the initial steps when considering adoption.

Assessing your eligibility and readiness

Before you embark on this journey, take some time to look inward and assess your personal readiness. UK law allows individuals over 21 to adopt regardless of marital status or sexual orientation.

This doesn’t mean that adoption is suitable for everyone, though. Reflect upon your lifestyle, support network and motivations to make sure you are fully prepared for the responsibilities that come with adoption.

There are also certain eligibility criteria other than your age and marital status that must be met as well. Whilst you do not need to be a British citizen, you or your partner if you are adopting as a couple must have a permanent home in the UK, for example.

Researching adoption agencies

Choosing the right adoption agency is crucial. You want someone you can trust to guide you through the process and provide you with any support you will need. You should also find an agency that understands your background and aligns with your values and needs.

Finding the right agency to partner with may take some time. Whenever you can, attend open days and information sessions for different agencies. You will find a difference between local authorities and voluntary agencies, so be sure to contact both types in your area.

Understanding the adoption process

Once you have settled on an agency, they will arrange to meet you. This could either be an informal meeting with you and your partner (if you are adopting with one), or with other people who are looking to adopt. You will be provided with an application form following this.

When the agency has received your form, the process can take around 6 months. During this time, you will be invited to classes which discuss the impact of adoption on your family life. You will also have a social worker visit you at home to check your suitability.

Next, police checks will be conducted. You will be unable to adopt a child if you or an adult member of your family has been convicted of a serious crime. A medical check plus three references will be requested. All of this information will be put into a report and sent to an independent panel that will assess your suitability.

If the panel deem you eligible for adoption, the agency will then begin to work towards finding you a suitable match.

Seeking legal advice

Adoption is a complex legal area so it is advisable to consult with family law solicitors who are experienced in adoption. They will be able to provide guidance on legal requirements, assist with any paperwork and represent your best interests throughout the process.